Well I was toying around with a subject “Why do guys/girls ignore people with prejudices/biased thoughts of selfish/prestigious needs of there?” But before I started to blog on this subject, I happen to visit www.mvblogs.org and zoomed into this nice article http://balaabodu.blogspot.com/2007/03/want-girl-friend-from-male.html on the same subject as mine. 90% of his views are exactly as mine but a 10% of individual difference arises. But I must say a good article down the lane.
I will just pickup his points:
1) Phone: Well even if you don’t want to call your love, once you are in the affair it will be an up and down process. Now even if you don’t call the other party might give a call. I have even seen girls of this present generation coming up and calling there boyfriend and even sending them money for them to call. As one of the comment on the publisher’s blog, “It’s GENERALIZING”. In that context the publisher of the article might be right, but in this generation, girls doesn’t hasten to come up with there heart open out to express.
2) Gift: Everyone want to be loved by means of gifts and surprise, what would be an relationship without some sweet surprises and some sweet token of ongoing relationship? Girls want these sweet tokens to know how much they are loved by there beloved and the same is with guys. Guys acts tough and say that they don’t want any gifts or surprise, but the fact is that if a girl gifts something, they accept it with more love and if it’s an surprise – the love will increase more from that point of life. But doesn’t mean that each and everyday or each and every week, that would make both the parties BORED. But you should always know when and where to do it. So if you keep buying gifts then the other person would be bored or many surprises? Then they won’t be xpecting anything new I guess.
3) Vehicle: That was a good point that’s been raised by the publisher of the article, I agree to the core with him on this belief. First thing a girl now asks is “Come and pick me?” “Oh you got no cycle? Well I will don’t bother – we can have a coffee sometimes later.” But if I am right, even the guys search for a girl with high value, in money and looks. So what’s the big deal if they also search so? “Again Generalization”. For a romantic life, riding a cycle on the cold night hugging onto each other in the middle of the night with moon following you is everyone’s dream. When a guy walk with his girlfriend, he would imagine – “AH What if I have a cycle? I could have had a romantic ride with her”. But I hate the fact that girls overlook a guy’s proposal just because he doesn’t have a cycle/car.
4) Money: Well that’s something really important for a life to exists, now if you ask me whether beggars doesn’t fall in love then you can see that the future is not bright. What I meant to say by here is that, money is really needed for someone to live and if he doesn’t have money, then how is he gonna look after his beloved and his children (in future)? But the saying that, behind every successful man is a women, to make this more true – a girl should accept a failed/failure guy. At least to give hopes, encourage and bring life into the lifeless soul.
Everyone in this world is trying to live happily and more importantly competing with each other to start and live a happy life and in logical thinking, nothing is possible in this present world without MONEY. MONEY TALKS
But true to in depth core is that money can’t buy everything, someone’s trust, someone’s love and someone’s happiness.
I will just pickup his points:
1) Phone: Well even if you don’t want to call your love, once you are in the affair it will be an up and down process. Now even if you don’t call the other party might give a call. I have even seen girls of this present generation coming up and calling there boyfriend and even sending them money for them to call. As one of the comment on the publisher’s blog, “It’s GENERALIZING”. In that context the publisher of the article might be right, but in this generation, girls doesn’t hasten to come up with there heart open out to express.
2) Gift: Everyone want to be loved by means of gifts and surprise, what would be an relationship without some sweet surprises and some sweet token of ongoing relationship? Girls want these sweet tokens to know how much they are loved by there beloved and the same is with guys. Guys acts tough and say that they don’t want any gifts or surprise, but the fact is that if a girl gifts something, they accept it with more love and if it’s an surprise – the love will increase more from that point of life. But doesn’t mean that each and everyday or each and every week, that would make both the parties BORED. But you should always know when and where to do it. So if you keep buying gifts then the other person would be bored or many surprises? Then they won’t be xpecting anything new I guess.
3) Vehicle: That was a good point that’s been raised by the publisher of the article, I agree to the core with him on this belief. First thing a girl now asks is “Come and pick me?” “Oh you got no cycle? Well I will don’t bother – we can have a coffee sometimes later.” But if I am right, even the guys search for a girl with high value, in money and looks. So what’s the big deal if they also search so? “Again Generalization”. For a romantic life, riding a cycle on the cold night hugging onto each other in the middle of the night with moon following you is everyone’s dream. When a guy walk with his girlfriend, he would imagine – “AH What if I have a cycle? I could have had a romantic ride with her”. But I hate the fact that girls overlook a guy’s proposal just because he doesn’t have a cycle/car.
4) Money: Well that’s something really important for a life to exists, now if you ask me whether beggars doesn’t fall in love then you can see that the future is not bright. What I meant to say by here is that, money is really needed for someone to live and if he doesn’t have money, then how is he gonna look after his beloved and his children (in future)? But the saying that, behind every successful man is a women, to make this more true – a girl should accept a failed/failure guy. At least to give hopes, encourage and bring life into the lifeless soul.
Everyone in this world is trying to live happily and more importantly competing with each other to start and live a happy life and in logical thinking, nothing is possible in this present world without MONEY. MONEY TALKS
But true to in depth core is that money can’t buy everything, someone’s trust, someone’s love and someone’s happiness.
1 comment:
already posted a comment about it so id be repeating myself.. neverthless its biased and theres a whole lot of stereotyping going on here..:)
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